Feeling invisible, under-appreciated, or conflicted?
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The four types of introvert
What type of introvert are you?
From my years of working with introverts, I’ve observed that there are four main types who consistently feel invisible, under-appreciated, or conflicted.
You are that solid and reliable quiet achiever who says little in meetings and works unnoticed in the background.
People who don’t know you well regard you as reserved, socially awkward, aloof, and even antisocial.
You refrain from actively advocating for yourself, naively believing that actions speak louder than words, and people should be able to see your good work without you having to talk about it.
You think talking about your accomplishments or claiming credit is bragging, which you were raised never to do.
Your frustrations:
- Being talked over by louder voices during meetings and discussions.
- Being perceived as a good worker but not a leader or influencer.
- Being labelled as “too quiet” and told to speak up more.
- Feeling unseen and under-appreciated.
You have an idea or vision that you care deeply about and want to do something about, but you struggle to make it happen.
You come up with exciting ideas, but never get around to writing the book or launching the course.
You believe that sales is sleazy and marketing is manipulation, so you refuse to do either, which means no one gets to hear about your wonderful creation, and no one can buy from you or work with you.
You procrastinate, overthink, and self-sabotage the moment success becomes a possibility.
You go on endless quests for more information and more qualifications, believing that if only you know one more thing or gain one more certificate, you will finally know enough and feel safe to step out.
Your frustrations:
You don’t take action, so you get no results. But when you don’t get results, you tell yourself:
- Who am I to do this bold, crazy thing?
- It works for other people, not for me.
- I always knew I wasn’t smart enough.
- I am not good at marketing.
- Maybe next year …
You grew up in a conservative Asian family where your individual needs and preferences came second to the collective needs of the family.
You were the classic Good Girl, excellent at complying without questioning. Pleasing others is second nature to you. Speaking up for yourself and asking for what you want makes you uncomfortable.
You feel guilty, apologetic, and uncertain when you have to say no or speak up, even when you’re in the right or when your needs are not being met.
Your frustrations:
- Your inability to speak up is costing you professional opportunities.
- Your chronic people-pleasing is allowing others to take advantage of you.
- Your lack of boundaries and conflict avoidance are costing you your personal peace.
- You are constantly plagued with self-doubt and think there is something wrong with you.
You have left behind a successful professional career and a network of friendships and connections in your home country, and are starting over from zero in your new adoptive country.
As a wife and mother, you are focused on helping your family integrate into the new environment.
You are often tired, have little time to yourself, and have come close to burnout and fatigue from constantly sacrificing your health and wellbeing for others.
When you are finally ready to re-enter the workforce, you discover that it’s not so easy to resume your career where you left off.
The system is different here, and you have to prove your professional worth all over again by going back to school, or doing the paperwork to gain the necessary accreditation and prior recognition of what you have achieved previously.
On top of all that, you are now at an age where you’re not as energetic as you were in your twenties.
Your frustrations:
- Figuring out how to re-establish yourself professionally.
- Learning how to make new friends and find others like you.
- Grieving what you left behind, and feeling that no one understands.
- Feeling stretched thin and exhausted from being older while navigating this big life transition.
- Feeling stressed and overwhelmed by all the changes, and wondering if you made the right decision.
- Feeling torn between your upbringing, values, and usual way of communicating, and those of your new culture.
Where to from here?
You now get to choose new ways to thrive and flourish.
The past is not your fault, but the present and future are your responsibility.
What you are looking for — and what I provide — is a way home to your truest and highest self.
One that sits well with your head, heart and spirit, that is sustainable and honest, and allows you to be yourself — fully and freely.
Ultimately, it is freedom and peace you seek.
Book a consultation to begin your journey home.
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Hi, I'm Serena
A simple question during a work meeting changed the trajectory of my legal career forever.
Now I look back on my younger self and I say: thank you for your courage.
Today, I get to combine the transforming power of personal development, mental health, and trauma-informed recovery with my love of spirituality and my strengths as an introvert and highly sensitive person, to support quiet individuals to find their authentic voice and flourish in a noisy world – without feeling that they have to act extroverted or in ways out of alignment with their integrity and values.
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"Such a beautiful soul"
I had 2 amazing Root Cause Therapy sessions with Serena and they were transformational for me. Serena has such a beautiful soul and I felt so safe with her, she also held a sacred space for me in such a professional manner, that it allowed me to delve down deep into those most vulnerable parts of myself that I needed to transform and heal.
I feel so blessed and honoured that she has been a part of my sacred journey towards becoming my higher self.
"Authentic and non-judgemental approach"
My experience with Serena has always been wonderful. I really appreciate her authentic and non-judgemental approach to coaching and group facilitation that always brings out the best in me.
Serena has excellent listening skills that leave me feeling seen and heard every time I interact with her. Serena’s gentle and introverted nature puts me at ease in her presence and I would highly recommend Serena’s groups and trauma-informed coaching services to others.
"Really gentle, kind and nurturing"
I have really enjoyed my healing journey with Serena. She has a way of making you feel like you have stepped into a sacred space that is all about you and your journey.
I felt comfortable and had complete trust in allowing Serena to guide me to where I needed to go to uncover the limiting beliefs that have been holding me back.
Serena has a really gentle, kind and nurturing nature and I felt so incredibly understood.
"Serena listened with empathy and patience"
I approached Serena to help me with mentoring my daughter who is diagnosed with High-functioning Autism and Anxiety.
I needed a mentor/life coach to be able to guide my daughter through her challenges so that she is able to function socially. Serena listened with empathy and patience. She mapped out strategies to help my daughter to achieve her goals and priorities. As a result of Serena’s coaching and mentoring, she is now more confident to express her thoughts, speak to people whom she meets for the first time, give a speech when she is required to do so, and able to self-regulate her emotions using effective strategies suited to her needs.
I highly recommend Serena for her empathy, compassion, knowledge, patience, willingness to be flexible and open. Thank you Serena!
"A deeply transformative experience"
Working with Serena was not only a pleasure but a deeply transformative experience. She showed up professional, kind, welcoming and very warm for each of our sessions. I felt seen, understood and supported in Serena’s presence.
We worked on limiting beliefs, moved through some deeply personal trenched and unresolved emotions, to eventually land in space of expansion and openness to growth – all under Serena’s guidance.
Thank you for this deeply transformative experience!
"Truly life-changing"
Completing The Visible Introvert Academy course recently with Serena Low has been truly life-changing. Serena created a safe, supportive, and judgment-free space that I looked forward to every fortnight.
With her gentle guidance, I gained powerful insights into myself and how I move through the world. I was able to challenge my limiting beliefs, clarify my core values, and begin living in alignment with them. I now see myself—and others—through a more compassionate and accepting lens. I’ve grown in confidence, self-acceptance, and self-love. Serena’s approach is both empowering and deeply grounding.
If you’re ready to grow, reflect, and reconnect with your authentic self, this course is a beautiful place to start. Highly recommended for anyone ready to grow from the inside out.
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